Two sides of divorce
Of course, when people hear the word "divorce" they associate it with everything negative. However, unsuccessful marriage has much more advantages than disadvantages. Going through divorce is also a good experience.
The first disadvantage is that you are alone. But loneliness should be viewed as temporary, and it has its positive side, you're free again, aren't you?
The second disadvantage is that women must earn money for themselves and their child, and usually have no profession, and have to start all over again.
The third disadvantage is undermined psyche.
The main positive outcome of your divorce is confidence that your own life is a value that shouldn't be sacrificed for anybody's sake.
Another advantage is family life experience. One thing is to live with your parents and, another is to cook breakfast, lunch and dinner every day for the whole family.
You have also got the experience of planning the family budget and communication with husband's relatives. The ability to find mutual understanding with his parents is a special gift and can help you greatly to facilitate your own life.
If it happened so that your first marriage turned to be unsuccessful, draw conclusions from it. But don't blame your husband or yourself in all failures of your family life.
Take a sober view of things and be wiser next time in order not to repeat your mistakes.