When your love is gone
What should one do when his/her love is gone? All people admit, that it is a very serious problem and that you should deal with it somehow. But there is no unique recipe for tackling it. There are many reasons for that. Let's consider them all. Maybe when you at least take them into account, you will easily find your own decision, which will correspond to your type of personality and your circumstances.
You may ask for a piece of advice from your friends. You will see at once, that their opinion will differ greatly. Everyone will give a piece of advice according his/her moral principles, breeding, stereotypes, etc. It will addle you finally. After long talks with your friends you will understand that they can't help you. You may even suspect them of being dishonest and unfair.
What to do then? The next step is to find suitable information in the Internet. There you can find people with the same problems. Ask them to tell you about their experience. At first you may think that those who have already gone through the loss of love are more professional in this sphere. It can seem obvious that they may prompt you some mature and effective decision. But the problem of the great variety of thoughts rises again. All people are different by nature and thus act differently.
Another problem arises, when it seems to you that you have already chosen the right decision but can't fulfil it.
When like-minded persons are also not helpful, you go to a psychologist.
Psychologist will offer you several ways out and say that it is up to you to decide how to act.
The conclusion is that nobody can offer you a unique decision.
It happens so because one must deal with this problem according to his/her own inner voice, principles and morality. If you are married and have children, you should decide what is more valuable for you: love, family relationship or bringing up children.
Therefore, if you can't live without love, find a new one, if you can't live without hearth, stay with your family and put up with the situation, if you feel responsibility for your children, see previous advice. But no one is allowed to say that you are irresponsible, if you leave your family in order to find new love.